"You can't 'talk a person down' from systemic abuse and neglect." This raw, essential essay exposes the catastrophic failure of crisis infrastructure—from 988 to Peer Support—to serve those in chronic, non-acute crisis. Being shuffled out of chats and banned from platforms proves a tragic reality: the dismissal of complex trauma is not benign neglect; it is an active contribution to human suffering that pushes resilient individuals toward a breaking point.