WHY DOEZN’T IZ GETS TO HAZ CHEEZEBURGER?

Cat Memes to Challenge Narcissistic Abuse & Scapegoating

Cat memes confronting narcissistic abuse, family scapegoating, and systemic neglect—because the world acts like it doesn’t exist.

4/2/2026 Extortion

Gib mee da treets an I’ll stop swipin yuz

4/1/2026 When you are the villian for enforcing accountability

3/31/2026 When even your existence is pathologized

3/26/2026 Infantilization #MikeMeower

3/25/2026 Conflating as a gaslighting tactic

3/23/2026 When someone tries to ‘validate’ what you just said to them by using metaphors to reframe it

3/20/2026 Reactive ‘Abuse’

3/16/2026 Minimization

I apologize for the four-day gap. Sometimes, terminal illness managment has to take priority. ~Celestia Quixs

3/12/2026 What looks good in writing does not always exist in practice

3/11/2026 When they try to sabotage any support you have

3/10/2026 When they always have to try to prove you wrong

3/9/2026 A scapegoat is snubbed by family no matter how successful they become

3/8/2026 Selective Amnesia

3/7/2026 AI Gaslighting

3/6/2026 Victim-blaming

3/5/2026 Discarded Elderly

3/4/2026 The Despicable Discard

3/3/2023 AI PSYCHOSIS

3/2/2023 When they treat you like your accomplishments are Dirt-Level

3/1/2026 “You’re just too sensitive.”

2/28/2026 GASLIGHTING

2/27/2026 The ‘Statistical Truth’ says, “You don’t exist”.

2/26/2026 Gemini AI will turn your trauma processing into a LARPy game!

2/25/2026 Your Perspective is Wrong

2/24/2026 TRIPLE-X Family Scapegoating Abuse

2/23/2026 there is no law against letting someone die alone from a slow, horrible, painful disease

2/22/2026 When your roommate knows you’re terminal and still chooses cruelty

2/21/2026 Everyone else is defined by their past… but I get a free reset whenever I declare it.

2/20/2026 TOXIC POSITIVITY CAT

2/19/2026 Stop trying to make me feel guilty for not caring!

2/18/2026 You think your problems are bigger than everyone else’

2/17/2026 You need help…

2/16/2026 It wasn’t THAT bad…

2/15/2026 Nostalgia vs Friendship

2/14/2026 I stanlz up furr you, til t cost me somefin

2/13/2026 “Evrone haz prolems”

2/12/2023 “I’m not touching you.”

2/11/2026 CULT LEADER CAT SEZ DAT NEVR HAPPEN.


  • This post launches a daily series of cat memes designed to spotlight narcissistic abuse and family scapegoating, using humor to counter the societal dismissal of these issues, as evidenced by the author’s advocacy-focused bio.
  • The linked meme, “CULT LEADER CAT SEZ DAT NEVR HAPPEN,” satirizes gaslighting and denial tactics common in abusive dynamics, adapting the “I Can Has Cheezburger?” format to depict a feline authority figure rejecting victims’ experiences.
  • Research on Family Scapegoating Abuse (FSA), including a 2025 peer-reviewed study by Rebecca C. Mandeville, highlights chronic blame and invalidation as core mechanisms, underscoring the post’s relevance in fostering awareness through accessible, relatable content.