The Dark Side of Selfless Giving: Accountability and Kindness
The post critiques the notion of selfless giving, highlighting how it can be manipulated by the ‘taker’ and leveraged by a narcissistic community that deflects accountability. It questions phrases like “be the bigger person” and “give the benefit of the doubt,” suggesting they often empower poor behavior rather than promote true kindness.
“True giving from the heart expects nothing in return, not even a ‘thank you’.”
Said the ‘taker’ deflecting the onus back onto the kindhearted ‘giver’.
“Be the ‘bigger’ person.”
Is the message from a narcissistic ‘community’ that refuses to be accountable for their unwillingness to behave in a decent manner.
“Take the higher road”
Says the religions that banish the scapegoats from the villages to carry away their guilt.
“Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.”
Say those who want to avoid having done to them the abuse they perpetrate unto others.
“Give them the benefit of the doubt.”
Says the enabler of poor behavior.
Why?
“I wanted to destroy something beautiful.” ~ The real Tyler Durden
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