Challenging Gender Ideology: A Personal Discussion

In this digital age, many individuals are freely dispensing advice on how to define oneself. But how many of them actually follow their own words? I had intended to write an essay discussing gender ideology and the backlash against it. However, my opinions on both sides may be considered controversial. Here are the main points … Continue reading Challenging Gender Ideology: A Personal Discussion

Sick and Tired

Do we get what we deserve? I am sick and tired of the 'just think positive' people. I am tired of being told I chose my shitty, scapegoat life before I was born or that I agreed to it as a child in order to survive. No being would choose abuse. No child would agree … Continue reading Sick and Tired

We are NOT Cute!

Two people within the same hour told my ex-husband and I we are too cute, as they watched us interact with each other in front of them. I'm here to tell ya, we are NOT cute! What we are is a narcissist trying desperately to hold on to his best source of supply and that … Continue reading We are NOT Cute!

Lessons I Learned from my Grandchildren

Youth perspectives highlight the complexities of emotions and responsibilities: a toddler views sadness as an injury, while older children express themes of memory, hidden pain, premature selflessness, and the sacrifice of personal needs for love and acceptance. These insights reflect a deeper understanding of childhood struggles and relational dynamics.