Tag: Other-focused

Narcissistic Families not only Scapegoat, they ‘Cain and Able’

A raw look at why dysfunctional families need a scapegoat. It details the psychological abuse and manipulation used to silence a truth-teller. Understanding Narcissistic Families and the Scapegoat Role This essay explores the fixed role of the family scapegoat in narcissistic dynamics. It details the psychological tactics of abuse, from gaslighting to smear campaigns, and … Continue reading Narcissistic Families not only Scapegoat, they ‘Cain and Able’ →

End of Life for a Model Codependent People-pleaser

A former people-pleaser re-examines their identity and past relationships, coming to terms with the emotional cost of self-betrayal and family dysfunction.

Lessons I Learned from my Grandchildren

Youth perspectives highlight the complexities of emotions and responsibilities: a toddler views sadness as an injury, while older children express themes of memory, hidden pain, premature selflessness, and the sacrifice of personal needs for love and acceptance. These insights reflect a deeper understanding of childhood struggles and relational dynamics.

Applying the 10 Commandments to the Treatment of Yourself

The content emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care and personal needs over being overly focused on others. It presents a blueprint based on the Ten Commandments, advocating for self-respect, accountability in relationships, and the necessity of maintaining boundaries. Ultimately, it encourages individuals to avoid codependency and nurture their own well-being.