Challenging Gender Ideology: A Personal Discussion

In this digital age, many individuals are freely dispensing advice on how to define oneself. But how many of them actually follow their own words? I had intended to write an essay discussing gender ideology and the backlash against it. However, my opinions on both sides may be considered controversial. Here are the main points … Continue reading Challenging Gender Ideology: A Personal Discussion

Is it Safe, yet?

The Social Experiments Conducted by Someone with Complex PTSD Many sufferers of Complex PTSD got that way by trusting too much and too soon as a survival mechanism. One would think survival would depend upon the opposite—keeping one's guard up and trusting no one. The first example is part of the 'fawn' response—presenting oneself as … Continue reading Is it Safe, yet?

Layers of Safety

I was born into an unsafe environment. A therapist of mine agreed I, also, inherited genetic 'memory' of trauma--Indigenous American Ancestors and what they dealt with, Grandparents going through the Great Depression, and my mother being sexually abused by her pedophile father from the time she was 9 years old. So, I have never felt … Continue reading Layers of Safety