The Myth of the Human ROM

Highly Superior Autobiographical Memory (HSAM) is often misrepresented as a perfect recall of dates, driven by media narratives. In reality, those with HSAM experience vivid memories tied to significant events, particularly traumatic ones, rather than a chronological database. The distinction matters as HSAM reflects emotional clarity, not mere factual accuracy.

The Dilution of Trauma

An analysis of how clinical terms like "emotional incest" are being weaponized by a new entitlement zeitgeist to avoid the basic emotional reciprocity required by the social contract.

The Rejection is Total

A raw account of repeated rejection by family, friends, and systems after profound loss, chronicling the pain of being dismissed as daughter, mother, friend, and more—highlighting the deep trauma of abandonment and the struggle for validation.

OPEN LETTER TO ANY PHYSICIAN WILLING TO PROVIDE LIFE-SAVING CARE

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A terminally ill patient with complex pulmonary and genetic conditions documents systemic obstruction to care and urgently requests immediate evaluation and treatment from any physician able to provide life-saving interventions.

Why ‘Have You Tried…?’ Is a Condescending Question

The author expresses frustration with the question, "Have you tried…?" feeling it implies incompetence and is condescending. Instead of asking this, they suggest validating the person's experience and offering support. Questions should reflect competence and motivation, focusing on what the individual plans to do next rather than the questioner's comfort.

When Medicare Oversight Fails

A Medicare Part D enrollment error triggered early disenrollment from Medicare Advantage, creating a one-month coverage gap. Federal agencies declined real-time intervention, exposing structural weaknesses in Medicare oversight and beneficiary protections.

What I Learned from the Healthcare Grievance Process

Silhouette of a figure holding justice scales, standing in a dark hospital hallway, with a judge’s gavel and stethoscope in the foreground.

The text discusses the failures of grievance processes in healthcare, highlighting the systemic issues of misdiagnosis and retaliation against patients who speak out. It emphasizes that justice is often inaccessible, with institutions prioritizing their interests over truth. The author advocates for reforms to empower patients and encourages sharing personal experiences to drive change.