The Rejection is Total

A raw account of repeated rejection by family, friends, and systems after profound loss, chronicling the pain of being dismissed as daughter, mother, friend, and more—highlighting the deep trauma of abandonment and the struggle for validation.

Documenting Health Issues

The content outlines a complex medical journey involving a patient with multiple pulmonary issues and past mistreatment within the healthcare system. The patient is preparing for a vital doctor's appointment, aiming to use meticulous documentation of their medical history to advocate for appropriate care while managing the challenges posed by a coercive ex-partner and a tumultuous environment.

The Cost of Being the One Who Knows

After decades of sacrificing for her family, a dying woman fixes a life-or-death insurance crisis alone while her daughter refuses one phone call and sends condescending links. A raw memoir of the scapegoat who keeps surviving the family that never shows up.

Not as Bad as it Seems

The writer reflects on a troubling pattern within their family, highlighting four non-related men who have died by suicide after being involved with female relatives. Despite the family's denial, these events suggest deeper dysfunction, including potential predatory behaviors. The author, labeled a scapegoat, grapples with the painful legacy of generational abuse and its impact on their children.

Learning from Mistakes and Building Trust: Embracing Empathy

This essay advocates for empathy, accountability, and the importance of learning from mistakes. It emphasizes truly understanding and addressing others' needs, promoting open and transparent communication, and being open to feedback and self-improvement. It also highlights the need for genuine empathy and support when helping others.

Linkin Park’s Responsibility: Supporting Mental Health Struggles in Chester’s Honor

This response to Linkin Park's interview raises concerns about their choice of a spokesperson during Suicide Prevention Month. It questions the rejection of mental health struggles and the betrayal of Chester's values. Suggestions include addressing fans' mental health struggles, aligning with Chester's legacy, educating themselves and actively supporting individuals in their healing journey, and being mindful of the impact on those with mental health issues.

Toxic Relationships and Suicide | Insider Experience

This essay delves into the author's personal encounter with suicide and the inadequacy of mental health services. It highlights dysfunctional families and toxic friendships as factors driving individuals to suicide. The author emphasizes that human treatment of each other, not just chemical imbalances, is at the core of the crisis, and provides unconventional resources for support.

Jesus Christ: The Scapegoat and the End of Blame

This essay explores Jesus Christ's role and teachings, emphasizing responsibility and love for self and others. The author sees Jesus as a model for taking responsibility and love as the sole commandment. She believes in the importance of self-love and taking action to become someone worthy of that love, criticizing the cycle of scapegoating.

When your Machiavellian adult daughter has a midlife crisis and scapegoats you

Parents! Vet your teenage daughter's boyfriends! Or, it will come back to bite you in the ass when she hits midlife and blames you for her life turning out different than she imagined it would! Your teenage daughter will lie to you and tell you her boyfriend is younger than he is right after she … Continue reading When your Machiavellian adult daughter has a midlife crisis and scapegoats you

Sick and Tired

Do we get what we deserve? I am sick and tired of the 'just think positive' people. I am tired of being told I chose my shitty, scapegoat life before I was born or that I agreed to it as a child in order to survive. No being would choose abuse. No child would agree … Continue reading Sick and Tired